Archive for June, 2008

From: closefriend@closefriend.com

To: hitha@hithaprabhakar.com

pps- r u still that skinny? U looked like Zahara last time I saw u!

There have been so many people that have tried to tell me how to eat. I’m not sure why, but my usual breakfast of Baked Lays and Diet Coke, a cookie for lunch and Serafina take out for dinner offended  people. Anyway, MANY have tried to get me to change and all have been unsuccessful. Then this little book called “Skinny Bitch”  came along. My lovely neighbor gave it to me after I went to LA for the weekend and promised me it would change my life.  And you know what? She was right! 

Rory Freedman and Kim Barnouin weren’t saying anything I hadn’t heard before in their book. In fact, they sounded just like everyone else in my life for the most part. What resonated with me was their message, “you are what you eat.”  Five simple words. When I read that I thought about all the junky bags of chips (even if they were “fat free”), the syrupy drinks, the dyes, the alcohol, the processed flour, the TEN THOUSAND chemicals I put in my body just from what I eat alone not even counting all the other crap that infiltrates my body from living in NYC, and I FREAKED OUT.  Did I want to be a glowy pretty person on the inside out or just a wannabe pretty person? Did I want the rolls of fat around my ass, hips and tummy to stay put and gather momentum or did I want my skinny mini body back? I realized I was trying to cover up all the damage I was doing to my self on the inside by wearing cute outfits and throwing on a ton of makeup! I actually thought I had hit an age where I needed to wear makeup to cover up the lines on my face!! I thought A- line dresses were totally cute and therefore acceptible to wear every damn day. Sometimes OVER jeans. Ha! Who was I kidding?  I just needed to be better to my body!

For those who want a life transformation in a good way pick up this book and read it. Like, now. My diet overhaul WAS NOT EASY.  It was frustrating not having my morning coffee, or just eating fruit for breakfast. And my little sister can attest to my total bitchiness as my body withdrew from caffine, sugar, asparatame, refined flour, dairy and meat (apologies Sonj!) but OMG do I feel better and LOOK better. And yes I did lose weight- about 6 lbs. which for me is a lot!

What I also loved about my neighbor’s tactic is that she didn’t try to force anything on me. Like my two best friends in LA, she led by example with the healthy lifestyle. So peeps, if I see you out I promise I won’t preach the gospel of “Skinny Bitch” in an annoying way. BUT if you are wondering why I am suddenly happier, glowy-er, skinnier, svelter, over all looking BETTER, I will for sure divulge all the deets of my little skinny bitch journey!

(picture from shopbop.com)

I get dizzy and sick every time I look at dresses like this one. Color fade is SUCH a fad, it really makes me cringe whenever I see it. This dress is by Alice and Olivia and  usually love Stacey’s stuff but wow this dress is not cool. Notice how it is a maxi dress AND paired with gladiator sandals!! No no nooooo!!!

(Image from style.com)

EW. These are hideous and an other example of how something that was cool a couple seasons ago (Imitation of Christ Spring 2007) are now an official “summer trend.”  Definitely do not wear them with short shorts, skirts, skinny jeans, halter dresses, mini dresses OR maxi dresses!

(Images from Yahoo)

Pretty girls but ugly and played out dresses. To those who think the “maxi dress” is the hot item for this season should check the archives from two seasons ago when they were actually the cool pretty thing to wear.  Short people (like me) should definitely not wear them it just looks stupid. 

Who can forget that fantastic purple dress Michelle Obama was wearing the nigh of her husband’s Democratic primary victory speech? It was designed by Chicago based designer Maria Pinto who creates all of Mrs. Obama’s looks including the red silk-crepe dress and jacket she wore on Super Tuesday and the white-cotton top and khakis while campaining with Caroline Kennedy. In an interview with the Wall Street Journal, Pinto says orders for her designs are up by 35% over the past 12 months. What’s more, potential investors and employees have been cold calling.  I’m shocked none of the former Project Runway winners didn’t think of this tactic to get their stuff out there since nothing else seems to be working for them…

…you are probably wondering where the hell I’ve been the last two weeks.  Two words: On vacation.  I had to take advantage of the time I had off before things got totally insane again, so I went to New Mexico and breathed for a minute. There were so many awesome things about being home, but my favorite was seeing one of my closest friends from growing up. She lives in Oakland, CA and like me, has the craziest schedule ever. But we somehow were able to coordinate ourselves and had an amazing time just laying low. So, for all of you who are overworked and overwhelmed I reccommend taking a trip to a place where you can totally unplug. It does a body good.

There are some beautiful places on this earth and I am happy to say I grew up in one of those places. This was taken at 8:00 am as I was leaving to get groceries at Whole Foods for one of our numerous pool parties. Yes the sun was really that bright and clear.

At one point my sister and I went to visit our aunt, uncle and cousin in Los Alamos. This was taken on our drive back from Santa Fe to Albuquerque.  Look at that sky!

Yep that’s a genuine smile on my face. No makeup. No pretense. Just happy to be chillaxing.

But I flew on one Wednesday morning for a lunch at The Surf Lodge in Montauk. I won’t lie, when I first got on the flight I was beside myself with fear. But seeing the views and having one of the most beautiful days EVER out on the north shore was so worth the ride. Vogue was having a shoot with designer Tracey Feith while we were eating lunch made by Sam The Surf Lodge’s incredible chef. Thanks to V1 Jets for taking us out there!

The view at take off. We are in the East river in NYC.

Arthur Ashe stadium from the air.

The deck at The Surf Lodge. I swear we were working and not just hanging out!!

Sam’s incredible lunch of lobster salad sandwich, fava bean and lemon grass salad a crab ceviche with blueberries and popcorn.

The flight we took back to NYC. This is at the airport in Montauk. I was of course beyond frightened, but the ride back was less bumpy. Maybe I just got used to it…

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WITH MARRIAGE, MUSIC AND MOTHERHOOD, THE SINGER THOUGHT SHE HAD IT ALL–UNTIL HER HUSBAND’S ALLEGED AFFAIR WITH ONE OF HER BEST FRIENDS.

The scene inside the Geneva Palexpo was glamorously befitting a high-society Swiss ball: ladies in evening gowns and men in black tie, flowing champagne, a high-roller charity auction and a mid-dinner fashion show. As the crowd of 850 dined on confit of lamb and chocolate mille-feuille on the evening of May 24, one of the event’s most highly anticipated guests was noticeably absent from her spot at Table 7. “Shania’s not coming,” said Stéphane Lagonico, a member of the Swiss Red Cross Ball executive committee, referring to his friend, singer Shania Twain, who had attended the last three years and is the event committee’s honorary president. “We are sorry she is not here, but we completely understand that she has other matters. She is going through a difficult time.”

Is she ever. Nine days earlier, her publicist announced that Twain, 42, and her husband, producer-songwriter Robert “Mutt” Lange, 59, were separating after 14 years of marriage. Though no reason was given, sources pointed to Lange’s alleged affair with the couple’s longtime personal assistant, Marie-Anne Thiébaud, 37, who managed their château in Switzerland and whom Twain considered one of her best friends. It was, in fact, Thiébaud who two years earlier had been Twain’s de facto date at the Red Cross ball, posing for photos alongside the singer in matching plunging necklines. While the country crossover superstar has sought refuge in her native Canada with her son Eja, 6, sources say Twain is still reeling from the disloyalty–times two. “It’s a multiple betrayal because it involves all the people around her, the people she is closest to,” says a friend of Twain’s in Switzerland. “She is in absolute, total shock.”

News of the separation has marked a messy public end for a musical power couple known as much for their ultra-private lifestyle as their successful professional collaboration, which has included three megaselling albums and five Grammys. Twain and Lange, who married in 1993, moved to Switzerland in 2000 and settled into a 46-room château (they wintered in New Zealand on a 61,000-acre spread). “It was important for [Mutt] to have privacy, to be out of the limelight,” says a Twain pal of the famously reclusive Lange, who has worked with artists from AC/DC to Celine Dion. “It was important for him, so it was important for her.”

The more isolated lifestyle took some adjusting for Twain: “She’s very warm, she likes to socialize and have people around. She gave up everything for him,” says an insider. But she too relished life away from the spotlight, in a country with gorgeous vistas and a high regard for privacy. While focusing on raising Eja (“She wanted to be there for him during these crucial years in his life,” says the Twain pal), the singer grew to cherish a routine that included shopping in the high-end boutiques the next town over from her home in picturesque La Tour-de-Peilz, riding horses, skiing and hiking. “She found solitude in being out in nature,” says Twain’s friend. And with her husband, whether picking up chocolate and pastries from the local bakery or sharing romantic dinners at the three-star Bon Rivage hotel on Lake Geneva, “they were always holding hands,” says the Twain insider, scoffing at reports he was a Svengali-like figure. “They were very much a couple.”

Another staple of Twain’s Swiss life: her friendship with Thiébaud. The two women’s families (Thiébaud has a young child) would often spend vacations and holidays together. “[Twain] moved to Switzerland without knowing much about the community; she didn’t know many people at all,” says the friend in Switzerland. “And then Marie-Anne became her employee. They were a similar age and shared similar interests. They were very good friends.” The two were so close, adds another source, that Twain would often do Thiébaud’s makeup if they were going out to an event.

According to sources, Lange told Twain about a month ago that he wanted out of the marriage but didn’t give a reason. It wasn’t until a friend tipped her off that Twain learned of the alleged affair. “She was devastated,” says a source. “This isn’t just about her–it’s her career, her life, her child, someone she thought was a close friend: Everything gets pulled out from underneath her.”

Lange has denied the allegations, telling PEOPLE exclusively that an affair was “absolutely not the reason [for the breakup],” explaining, “It’s literally just a growing apart, that’s all.” He also denied that he was in a romantic relationship with Thiébaud. Reached in Montreux, Switzerland, Thiébaud, who is herself in the process of divorcing after eight years of marriage, told PEOPLE of the alleged affair, “It’s not true.” Yet a source close to the situation confirms the relationship. “They are absolutely still together,” says the source. “It was a big shock, completely unexpected. It’s very difficult to be betrayed by people you love and trust.”

Twain’s heartache is the latest chapter in a fairy-tale life filled with both terrible hardship and wild success. Born Eilleen Regina Edwards and raised in an Ontario mining town by an Irish-Canadian mother and a stepfather who was a member of the Ojibwa tribe, Twain started helping support her family at age 4, when she sang along with a diner jukebox. “These guys heard and asked my mom if I could sing louder. She put me up on the countertop, and from that moment on, she was convinced I was going to be a little performer,” Twain told Time magazine in 2002 She continued to provide for her three younger siblings after her parents died in a head-on collision with a logging truck in 1987, when she was 21. “She’s always taken care of other people,” says the Twain insider.

After scoring a Nashville contract and adopting the stage name Shania (“I’m on my way” in Ojibwa), she met Lange, an über-successful producer living in London (he was born in the African country now known as Zambia and educated in South Africa). The two quickly forged a professional bond–she would sing to him over the phone–and married six months after they met. “He’s intense and very bright … and he’s a caretaker. I think that was appealing,” says a Twain source. Twain went on to sell more than 60 million albums worldwide, racking up hits like “You’re Still the One” and “Man! I Feel Like a Woman!”

Her music–and her family–have been Twain’s pillars as she copes with the breakup of her marriage. In Huntsville, Ont., where she owns a waterfront cottage, the singer has been keeping a low profile while playing tennis and riding horses, indulging in spa treatments and dining out with her sisters and her son, a “remarkably normal, well-behaved little boy” who seems to have picked up Mom’s healthy eating habits, according to a Huntsville source: “He eats chickpeas like other kids eat candy.” Eja (pronounced “Asia”) is “the jewel in her crown. She just adores him,” says a Twain insider. “That’s what’s helping her get through this: her son and writing.” Sources say even without Lange, Twain is working on her music. “She’s been constantly writing songs this entire time,” says a friend. “I know it’s very therapeutic for her.”

Though Twain seemed to retreat from public life years ago, friends say she is no woman of mystery but a warm, funny, generous soul. “She’s just real,” says a Twain source. “She’s charitable with her talents, her finances, her spirit.” In New Zealand in March she opened a public hiking trail that cuts through her property. “She was wonderful, very charming,” says local radio-station owner Ed Taylor, who spoke with Twain at the ceremony. In the program for the Red Cross ball she missed, Twain’s personal message quoted Sir Winston Churchill: “‘We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.’ From the bottom of my heart, I encourage you to continue.”

For the woman who once asked in song, “Is There Life After Love?” friends say the answer will be yes. As Lange told PEOPLE, “We’re still very good friends, and that’s the way that it’ll remain.” His sentiment may be overly hopeful for the time being, as pals say the sting of the breakup won’t fade soon: “You can imagine the devastation of losing her husband and her best friend,” says the Swiss insider. But in the long run, “Shania absolutely will get through this, just like she has every time she’s faced adversity,” says another friend. “She draws from an inner strength. She’s very lucky to have it, and she knows that.”

“HER CAREER, HER LIFE, HER CHILD, SOMEONE SHE THOUGHT WAS A CLOSE FRIEND: EVERYTHING GETS PULLED OUT FROM UNDERNEATH”

–A FRIEND OF SHANIA’S

“WE’VE WATCHED HER DEAL WITH TRAGEDY. SHE HAS A HUGE BACKBONE AND WE ARE ROOTING FOR HER ALL THE WAY”

–HUNTSVILLE, ONT., RADIO HOST SARAH COOMBS

WHO IS MARIE-ANNE THIEBAUD?

She started out as a trusted employee of Twain and Lange in 2000, when the couple moved to La Tour-de-Peilz, Switzerland. As secretary, personal assistant and manager of their château, Thiébaud, 37, was a daily presence who soon became a close friend. “The people in your life every day become your family, your friends and your confidants,” says a Twain source. “They celebrated holidays and birthdays together. They were very good friends.” Swiss records show Thiébaud, a native of the region who studied to be an administrative assistant, is in the midst of her own divorce from husband Frédéric, whom she married in 2000 (They have a young child.) “She’s a good mom,” says a local source. Thiébaud denied the affair with Lange and told People, “All I can say is that I’m okay.”

THEIR WEALTH

The exes lived on three continents–and have a combined net worth of about $1 billion.

HIS: OVER $500 MILLION

* The producer, who’s working on Nickelback’s next CD, wrote hits for Twain, Def Leppard and others, and “Every time [his] song plays, he gets a cut,” says a source. Lange makes an estimated $20-30 million a year in licensing songs.

* He had an undisclosed stake in Zomba Music Group, which sold for $2.7 billion in 2002

HERS: $450 MILLION

* Twain has sold more than 60 million albums worldwide; Come On Over is the bestselling country album of all time.

* In addition to television ads for Revlon in 1999, she released her second fragrance with Coty, Shania Starlight, last year, earning her an estimated $3-4 million.